Hello Blacren residents, Big June from B’klyn here harping about the heinous act of hiding your true self. I think we all at some point felt like the world just wasn’t ready for the beast within. Whether it was the fact that we felt that people just wouldn’t understand; or maybe we were just ashamed of certain facts about ourselves, but everyone keeps parts of their life a secret. Most times we just don’t want to feel stupid or rejected. We hide behind the fact that people will only know what we reveal to them, and we tend to expose ourselves in phases hoping our significant others will fall in love with us before they learn our dirty little secrets.
The truth is, that although wearing a mask feels like a good idea to protect your heart, it’s really the best way to push someone away from you. hiding the truth about yourself from your lover is a bad starts to a relationship. If the person you’re dating can’t see past your flaws then they don’t deserve you in the first place. Then again if your flaws are so bad that you don’t think that anyone would want you, then it might be smart to do some self healing before you try to take on a new lover.
Either way Trust is the issue here, and wearing a mask isn’t going to reveal the you that you want your partner to know, nor will it get you any closer to a happy healthy relationship. Speaking of, here are 10 signs that you are in a committed relationshlip from writer Lindylou at futurescopes.com
1. Love and respect
4. Spending time together
5. Being there for each other
7. Living together
8. Buying property together
9. Getting engaged
10. Proposal of marriage
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